Tuesday, May 02, 2006

In Memory of Dottie St.Clair


Here is a picture of me and my dear Aunt Dottie St.Clair in 2004, taken during a small family reunion held at her house. Many of you were there for this event.

Sadly, Dottie passed away last week at the age of 91. Appropriately, the day of Dottie's memorial service and the following day for the church yard gravesite service were beautiful sunny days. These days were declared "Dottie days" by her grandson, Steve. This is particularly meaningful because western Oregon is not known for it's reliable supply of sunshine. But, for these two "Dottie days", it was on cue.

Doing justice to the life of my Aunt Dottie involves mentioning at least four things... her zest for life, her devotion to her beloved 1957 Chevy Corvette (license plate "Hot Dot"), her lifelong fascination with Harley Davidson motorcycles and her love for her family... especially her daughter, Shirley. Dottie, although quite a responsible woman in life, never quite grew up and liked to refer to herself as the "big kid" and her daughter Shirley as the "little kid". Shirley devoted the last several years to taking care of her Mother, allowing Dottie to stay in her own home where she wanted to be. Although she couldn't actually drive her Corvette or ride a Harley any more, she loved being surrounded by her substantial collection of Corvette & Harley memorabalia (including several trophies from car shows where she showed off her beautiful red and white Corvette). If you click on the image to enlarge it, you will be able to see a picture of her Corvette on the mantle behind me.

* * * In the program from Dotties memorial was the following appropriate poem:

AFTERGLOW
I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one
I'd like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done

I'd like to leave an echo
Whispering softly down the ways
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days

I'd like the tears of those who grieve
To dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave
When this life is done
* * *

Aunt Dottie was born Dorothy Margaret Miller on September 26, 1914. On November 13, 1935 she married Oba St. Clair who was (literally) the boy next door. They had one child, Shirley Margaret St. Clair, born in 1936. Dottie has two grandchildren: Steve Myers (living in Denver) and Randy Myers (living in Portland). Steve and his wife have two children, Ben and Jessica.

She is loved and missed!

1 comment:

Frank St.Clair Clan said...

We all need to live life as Dottie did.
She is an insperation to me and I can only hope to have part of the zest for life that she did. I do share her love of Harley motorcycles... and neat cars. So maybe there is hope for me to not grow up too fast!!
Bunny